HOW TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOREVER
Wanna know how an existing relationship of yours lasts? Just read this article and you will find it helpful in keeping your relationship until the very end.
Having one such good relationship is truly a gift from God, a blessing which has to be nurtured for years founded with positive thoughts and actions. Ideal relationships may not be a genre at this present time but come to think of it, the effects if you don't have it until the very last day of your life here on earth. Just hang on and remember this acronym (RELATIONSHIP) to be able to save your present relationship with somebody who means so much to you.
Let's get started:
- RESPONSIBILITY
Remember that for every action, there is an equal and opposite force of reaction. Always be responsible in all your ways. If you're responsible enough of your actions, it means you care for this person and in return, this will be the usual yet ideal picture that exists in the history of your love affair. One is responsible in giving love (through a sort of ways) and care to one's partner.
- ENCOURAGEMENT
Giving each other a word of encouragement will push your lover to pursue his / her goals in life. As a couple, you become one; hence his / her goal is also your goal. Keep it up giving him / her a push to be able to realize one's goal. Doing such would also mean getting into your relationship saved for remarkably doing things together.
- LOVE
Yes, you heard it right! Your burning love to each other will keep your relationship going. There are a variety of ways how you can display your utmost love and concern to your partner. A daily dose of saying "I love you" or "I care for you" coupled with responsible actions could be of help. Doing your authentic ways of showing how much you care is very much appreciated by your partner. Each one learns how to value one's existence. Without love, surely your relationship dies a natural death. For how could you stay up to this time, if you don't love each other anymore. Common guys, your actions couldn't deny. Your partner could feel if you're still in love with him / her. Truly, it's love that binds a couple together.
- ALTRUISM
When you're into relationship, you have decided to be one in most instances. You learn and accept each one's ways of life. Of course, you cling on to what is right. Move as one to the right path. In other words, you need not to be selfish. If your one old way of life is not acceptable, then it's a matter of sacrificing it by throwing it into the trash bin. Try not to be unselfish, or else you might not be able to save it forever.
- TIME
This is another important element for a relationship to last. Your being busy is not an excuse for not giving your partner your attention. Just a short but engaging conversation before actualizing your other businesses in life means a lot. Remember that giving him / her your limited (if you're too busy enough with your work) but quality time with your partner means significantly. Time element couldn't be removed from the list in saving one's relationship for how could you manage to have a good one if you don't even show how much you care for him / her. Most women want their partner to give their precious time (even just a so short time) to let them feel that they are still loved and cared.
- INTANGIBILITY
It's not material things that bring your relationship to last. It's not how many expensive presents you have given or shared. It is the intangible proof of how much you love and care for your partner. It's not always a good instance after giving him / her a gift then you squabble at the end of the day. Even though you haven't shared a gift on him / her on her birthdays or any other equally important occasions of your life as couple, your simple ways of displaying your love would count most. Taking time sharing your thoughts about life, your plans, your remarks about his / her accomplishments would mean significantly to your loved one.
- OPENNESS
How often do you spend time sharing about your daily experiences with your partner? Or have shared about what you like or don't like about him / her? How could such present relationship last if you're not open enough about your relationship? If this is disregarded, improving oneself would not take place. As a couple, feel free to share how both of you could lead your relationship to an open book where each of you could read what are and what aren't to, which are and which are not.
- NOBILITY
We cannot deny the fact that in choosing a partner in life, his / her character or personality should have to be considered much. Being noble in ways is always appreciated, hence it helps in keeping one's relationship. Your partner's impressiveness or magnificence can win your heart. Your partner may not be perfect in all his / her ways (for nobody's perfect) but at least he / she is exhibiting acts making each other happy with the relationship.
- SINCERITY
Are you sincere enough? Have you been so true about what you feel? Then, show it. After all, this is one such element of a relationship to keep it grow and last forever. Sincerity is something that lets each of the pair to realize that he / she is the focus of the relationship. Outside forces may intervene but once compounded with sincerity, no one can break the chain. Just let your partner know that he / she makes your world go round.
- HONESTY
As the saying goes, "honesty is the best policy". Certainly, this element of relationship is so important to keep it growing. Just be true to yourself. Share what you feel. If you don't like his / her ways, tell it. After all, if it's left undone, it will create more problems in your relationship. Being honest at all times will keep her truest in you till the rest of time. Once trust is lost, it's difficult to win it back.
- INTIMACY
It may not necessarily refer to a private act of a couple but it would also mean how 'personal' is your relationship with your partner. Having a close relationship means you're making a point that one is connected with each other, in many ways of your lives as a couple. Being intimate lets one feel how much each one is being loved and cared. It lets your partner believe that he / she is the most important person in your life.
- PATIENCE
Patience is a virtue. As a couple, there are many plans that each would like to realize. These plans cannot be done in just a click of the finger. Some may be realized quickly but others take a long time. Whenever things do not turn out right, have patience. Little by little, your plans will be realized through waiting patiently. Do not lose the track. Do not blame each other for any failure in your plans or for not being in effect for a long period of waiting. Take note, things happen at the right time.
RELATIONSHIP. This is such a powerful acronym to remember how you could make your love affair existing until the very end. Just take each letter of the word to be a guide to be able to reach your ultimate goals in life by sticking together at all times!
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